Nancy and I became friends a couple of years ago. She was looking for a gardener and someone to help with things around her home. We gardened together, cleaned house together, shopped together, had meals out together, went to church together on Christmas...

Nancy came with us to Barbados for our son, Kaylen's wedding in 2012. He was special to her as he was born just days before Derek passed away in 1983. She spoke of an earlier trip she had taken with her mom to Barbados and that she was sorry she never g...